How serious has it become, or is it flirting? Carolyn Hax is a syndicated advice columnist for The Washington Post. Related However, if you and your spouse are comfortable with each other's ages, then it will at least give you some solid ground with which to deal with any naysaying in-laws. By the way, my sister is underage. Mariella replies I feel your pain. Commonly in these situations, a mother- and father-in-law worry that they'll never have grandchildrenbecause their daughter-in-law is over the hill.
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Your sister's safety is at stake.
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Meeting him is a must otherwise your objections are based only on your misgivings, not the individuals involved. I say share what you know. I was a fresh-out-of-college aspiring digital fashion writer with no clue on how to break in. You write you "don't want anyone to hurt her" - do you have reason to believe this man is likely to hurt her?